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What to Do When a Veteran Dies

A Short, Steady Guide for the First Year, in the Order It Happens

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About this book

A veteran you loved has died, and the questions are arriving faster than the answers. This short book walks the first year with you on a clock: the first 72 hours, the first two weeks, the first 90 days, months three to twelve, the one-year wall, and year two and beyond. It shows what belongs to this week and what can wait, the papers almost everything depends on, the burial honors families have to ask for, and the one deadline most families never hear about. It never decides your case. It hands you the questions to bring to a free accredited representative.

You will follow Carol, whose husband Ray served in the Army, and her daughter Dana, helping from two states away. Every chapter has a note for the son or daughter reading it for a parent, and a warning about the scams aimed at grieving families.

Inside this book

  1. 1Before You Do Anything Else
  2. 2The First Two Weeks
  3. 3Burial and Military Honors
  4. 4The Deadline Most Families Never Hear About
  5. 5The Monthly Check
  6. 6If Money Is Tight Now
  7. 7Health Coverage After Him
  8. 8The Paperwork That Protects You
  9. 9The People Who Will Try to Take Advantage
  10. 10The First Year, in Order

The book points you to its free field guide, The First Weeks as a Survivor (a free download, no signup).

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J. Erickson's author image: Air Force uniform ribbons and rank insignia
About the author

J. Erickson

Author, educator, former veteran service officer.

J. Erickson is a service-disabled Air Force veteran. He served as a military firefighter and as a veteran service officer, where he spent years walking veterans through the same claims process he writes about now. He holds an MBA and writes plain-language guides for veterans who want to understand the system without a translator.

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